At large scale I'd say MySQL is still a competitor for a few reasons:

* Scale-out inertia: yes, cloud vendors provide similar shading and clustering features for Postgres, but they're all a lot newer.

* Thus, hiring. It's easier to find extreme-scale MySQL experts (although this erodes year by year).

* Write amplification, index bloat, and tuple/page bloat for extremely UPDATE heavy workloads. It is what it is. Postgres continues to improve, but it is fundamentally an MVCC database. If your workload is mostly UPDATEs and simple SELECTs, Postgres will eventually fall behind MySQL.

* Replication. Postgres replication has matured a ridiculous amount in the last 5-10 years, and to your point, cloud hosting has somewhat reduced the need to care about it, but it's still different from MySQL in ways that can be annoying at scale. One of the biggest issues is performing hybrid OLAP+OLTP (think, a big database of Stuff with user-facing Dashboards of Stuff). In MySQL this is basically a non-event, but in Postgres this pattern requires careful planning to avoid falling afoul of max_standby_streaming_delay for example.

* Neutral but different: documentation - Postgres has better-written user-facing documentation for user-facing functions, IMO. However, _if_ you don't like reading source code, MySQL has better internals documentation, and less magic. However, Postgres is _very_ well written and commented, so if you're comfortable reading source, it's a joy. A _lot_ of Postgres work, in my experience, is reading somewhat vague documentation followed by digging into the source code to find a whole bunch of arbitrary magic numbers. If you don't believe me , as an exercise, try to figure out what `default_statistics_target` _actually_ does.

Anyway, I still would choose a managed Postgres solution almost universally for a new product. Unless I know _exactly_ what I'm going to be doing with a database up-front, Postgres will offer better flexibility, a nicer feature-set, and a completely acceptable scale story.

> At this point I'm not sure why anyone would choose MySQL

Because I have used MySQL for over 20 years and it is what I know!

> I would highly recommend you read the docs on InnoDB locking then pick Postgres.

This made me laugh pretty hard, but it's basically my take too.

I'd pretty much go with the same thing. It's interesting to me, though, that people see Postgres as the "big database" and MySQL as the "hobby database." I basically see things as the exact opposite - Postgres is incredibly flexible, very nice to use, and these days, has fewer foot guns at small scale (IMO) than MySQL. It's more academically correct and it generally tends to "work better" at almost any achievable "normal" scale.

On the other hand, Postgres is full of pitfalls and becomes very difficult at exceptionally large scale (no, not "your startup got traction" scale). Postgres also doesn't offer nearly the same quality of documentation or recipes for large scale optimization.

Almost everything in the 2016 Uber article you link, which is a _great_ read, is still true to some extent with vanilla Postgres, although there are more proprietary scale-out options available now. Postgres simply has not been "hyper-scaled" to the extent that MySQL has and most massive globally sharded/replicated systems started as MySQL at some point.

For this same reason, you are likely to be able to hire a MySQL-family DBA with more experience at hyper-scale than a Postgres one.

With all that said, I still agree - I'd almost universally start with Postgres, with MySQL as a back-pocket scale-up-and-out option for specific very large use-cases that don't demand complex query execution or transactional workload properties. Unless you have an incredibly specific workload which is a very specific combination of heavy UPDATE and `SELECT * FROM x WHERE id=y`, Postgres will do better at any achievable scale you will find today.

To me, every time I've touched MySQL, I've found an issue that just rubbed me the wrong way... starting with the fact that UTF8 isn't, and even across new major versions hasn't changed to an alias for the real UTF8. (VAR)BINARY does case sensitive collation based on db default, it shouldn't do any type of textual comparison even if the data is "text". You can't do foreign keys with ANSI quotes for the table/field names...

Note: some of this may have changed in the past 6+ years I've avoided looking at it again.