▲ | gampleman 5 hours ago | |||||||
I suspect that a lot of this form of cultural subtlety is designed to be hard on purpose. This allows individuals to show off and spar on a fairly harmless linguistic level - "he is so suave, she conveys her meaning just so" etc. Effectively it is a way to show off verbal + emotional intelligence in a way that doesn't look like showing off, since it's all about politeness. The fact that it makes it hard for foreigners to productively engage is just a side benefit of the arrangement. | ||||||||
▲ | jrvarela56 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||
My take on “Hard on purpose” is that it’s plausible deniability. It’s not for showing off, it’s to make the situation polite in a way that you can’t rationally attribute malice. | ||||||||
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▲ | vintermann an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||
There are definitively social games which are about showing that you have been initiated into the social codes of your class, but I don't know that this is one of them. | ||||||||
▲ | Der_Einzige 24 minutes ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||
If that's true, than the theories that "Autism is the next form of human evolution" seem far more true. Shit tests are demonic and should be rooted out from the human psyche. |