You don't understand. Everybody who doesn't like the things I like is the same: bad and stupid. Or maybe you do understand, because suddenly Wayland came up, and since you personally are annoyed by it, now this style of argument is "gaslighting."

It's not "gaslighting" it's just name-calling and argument through insinuation about other people's characters, rather than substance. It's not even ad hominem, because you assume people are arguing in bad faith because of the positions they've taken, not because you know a thing about them.