I wish someone mentioned DMT here (N,N-DMT). It's really that powerful that you can't ignore that.

Look up DiMiTri ladder protocol, or even without a protocol. The thing is that DMT enthusiasts have advanced quite a bit. Now you don't need to smoke DMT to get a "breakthrough". The entire "breakthrough" moment is somewhat overhyped.

But you can extract the molecule by yourself, and create your own vape, and experience the safest way known so far to overcome years of grief in weeks, sometimes days.

The idea is inhaling every minute relatively small dose to keep yourself here in this world without any breakthroughs, and maintaining this control for the next 60 minutes, while healing the trauma. So in total 60 relatively easy inhales. And it works.

It's definitely underestimated in HN community.

PS and "breakthrough" moments might allow you to see the person and talk to them

I would argue that you’re advocating for hallucinogenic drugs in a relatively novel treatment and this seems fairly drastic even here.