She has very clearly articulated what we have lost as a culture as we attempt to eliminate any discomfort or inconvenience in our lives because of death. This book really changed my perspective:

https://orphanwisdom.com/die-wise/

Dying is a skill, both for the person doing it and the people around them.

I find some comfort in Seneca's letter myself, simple words that takes days to digest: https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Moral_letters_to_Lucilius/Let...