finally, someone that gets it! these different lenses are all just tools. using the right tool for the job is part of being good at your job.

Actually, anything we use is "just tools". IDEs, programming languages, operating systems, text editors, fonts, etc.

We all prefer different toolsets due to our differing needs and preferences. Understanding it removes a lot of misunderstanding, anger and confusion from the environment.

But, reaching there requires experience, maturity and some insight. Tool suitability is real (you can't drive a screw with a pair of pliers), but the dialogue can be improved a ton with a sprinkle of empathy and understanding.