This is just extremely one sided. He intentionally sabotaged his ex employers computer systems, was hired to fix them, was caught as the original cause of the problem, fired again, then used a back door to take down their systems again. He plead guilty to this in 2014.

He was on probation and required to use monitoring software as a condition of being let out of jail early, he had a secret iphone he used to access the internet that was not monitored, so his probation was revoked. He wasn't arrested again, his probation was revoked.

The wife's account focuses on a ton of irrelevant details, the above is sufficient to explain the entire situation.