> Most of the noise seems to be coming from developers, so, to me, it looks like Apple is doing a good job as my agent.

Yea, whether we like it or not, app developers (as a general group, not you, the individual good guy) have proven themselves to be generally bad actors and unfortunately need to be treated as attackers. The more I hear developers complain about a platform not letting them do this or that, the more at ease I am about running software on that platform.