Maybe you need two phones then, one for the civic stuff and the other for private communication.

I don't care about this kind of private communication. I care about automating and debullshittifying my life, which includes stuff like banking and civics.

I didn't learn to program computers so I could use it to shitpost more privately. I learned it so I can make machines deal with things for me the way I want them to.

Perhaps just websites for communication then, through tor or some other protocols.