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lemming 3 days ago

Our daughter is 11 and is a voracious reader. This isn’t my experience at all. We read daily to her until she didn’t want us to any more a year or so ago. But we never had any trouble finding good books, some new and some older.

I really love kids books of all sorts - especially the illustrated ones are real works of art.

joenot443 3 days ago | parent | next [-]

Do you have a son? Does he read as much?

Some parents I know have suggested it's much, much easier to find newer books which interest daughters than books which might interest their son. They asked me to find some newer books he might find interesting.

Does anyone have suggestions on 2020s books aimed at adolescent boys? Ideally ones more focused on the real experience of boyhood, I think he'd be less interested in ones focused making adult commentary on social or identity topics.

metaketra 3 days ago | parent | next [-]

I would recommend the website Royalroad https://www.royalroad.com/home. It has a ton of stories by amateur authors. They're not enriching, deep, or social commentary. It's a modern version of pulp magazines, in the vein of Conan the Barbarian with worse writing, but in the end those were published in a paid magazine, while this is a free website accessible to all.

While they're not high quality, with a couple of exceptions, they're very fun to read, and in my opinion, while you can spend your time reading only high quality books, it's nice to just have what is essentially the fast food of fiction as well. Reading is a habit, and creating it by focusing on something like this, can still allow you to read something with depth and quality later on.

There's a big market for this for girls and for women in any book store, but for the most part, you can't find the same for men.

If you want specific recommendations you can check around /r/rational on reddit, since they tend to cover some of the better stories from that site.

ordord00 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I have a 12 year old daughter and 10 year old son. My daughter has been reading voraciously since about 9 years old. This past summer she plowed through several 800-1000 page books.

My son is not nearly as voracious as she is, but has, in the past 6 months started to really value his reading time, enough that he gets upset when things interfere with it. Also, he now goes out and researches books to read (often via YouTube during his Youtube time). I think what got him here was consistency.

We've read to them every night until they were in second grade and then required them to read overnight. It took a while to take hold with both, but once it did they dove in and now really value it.

As for what he is reading - Diary of a wimpy kid series, Percy Jackson, Mysterious Benedict Society are the current favorites.

nickd2001 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

These are fairly current: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Rider. Aimed at teenage boys although I only know about them cos our daughter loved 'em.

squigz a day ago | parent [-]

Oh goodness Alex Rider is still going? I was reading those 20 years ago haha

prawn 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I have both (10-13ish) and both read almost constantly. Our son is the older one, read early and also very quickly, and that's set a tone for his siblings who now read a lot as well. Neither in that 10-13 age bracket above has trouble finding novels they enjoy from fantasy or adventure settings. There was an earlier period where we asked friends' teenagers to suggest book series, but these days our children seem to find their own novels during library sessions incorporated into their schooling.

technothrasher 3 days ago | parent [-]

Yeah, although my son had trouble learning to read and wasn't really reading at grade level until the end of second grade, by the time he was ten he was reading all kinds of different books that interested him without needing our suggestions. He did read some "young reader" books, but also read a lot of classic adult novels.

b_t_s 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think this is probably very genre specific. I suspect the nonfiction and realistic fiction boy/manly/macho genres(outdoors, machines, fighting, and the like) may have been especially cannibalized by games/video. I don't recall seeing any of this stuff on my last trip to a physical bookstore. But on the fantasy/geeky side there are more great options than there have ever been, and, as a girldad, I can tell you that female main characters are tough to find.

HankStallone 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

A mother I know said the same thing about reading assignments at school, that they're all for girls now.

Having a female protagonist doesn't necessarily mean boys can't enjoy a book, of course. I (a boy) enjoyed Nancy Drew just as much as The Hardy Boys when I was young. But I suspect modern writings with girl protagonists are more focused on targeting girls than on making good stories that happen to feature girls, and may not be as universally enjoyable.

lemming 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

No, we just have the one daughter. But I was a boy, and I loved reading too. I don't remember needing books to mirror my experience, in fact I probably preferred books which didn't since I mostly found my own experience fairly boring!

Some recent-ish off-the-beaten track suggestions that our daughter really liked that might be appealing to boys:

1. The Unknown Adventurer books (https://www.theunknownadventurer.com): beautifully illustrated, Journey to the Last River is wonderful. We have the Lost Book of Adventure too, but our daughter didn't enjoy that one as much, I think that one would appeal more to boys. Looking at the page I see they have a third, I'll have to pick that up.

2. Almost anything by David Almond, although his young adult stuff tends to blend into his adult work and not all of it is appropriate/interesting depending on reading/maturity level. Plenty of male protagonists, mostly universal themes, some quite strange. I'd recommend reading them first to get an idea if they'd be good for your kid, I loved them. His first book Skellig is probably a good place to start just to see if you like the style or not, although they're all quite different from each other.

3. We really liked A Wish in the Dark, by Christina Soontornvat. Some social commentary but also a great story in an interesting world: https://soontornvat.com/books/a-wish-in-the-dark/. I also highly highly recommend All Thirteen, the non-fiction story of the Thai cave rescue, absolutely amazing story: https://soontornvat.com/books/all-thirteen/.

4. The Orphans of the Tide series by Struan Murray are great adventure/fantasy stories, if occasionally a little dark for younger kids. We got distracted before getting to the last one in the series, but the first two were good.

I can't help so much with stories specifically for boys, but generally I find that just focusing on high-quality, well written books of any stripe are a good bet. If you have a good bookshop nearby, go and find the helpful person - they can help steer you. And buy books from them so they stick around :-)

figers 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I have daughters that love nancy drew novels, read to them before bed, currently on book 28.

for a boy the Hardy boys is the equivalent..

Also depends on the age but other good ones are:

Artemis Fowl Alex Rider Berenstain Bears

squigz a day ago | parent | prev [-]

Isn't 2020s a pretty steep cutoff? I understand these stories shouldn't be too cut off from the current culture, but surely 10-15 years in the past is still fine? Even older, surely; 2 of the novels that stick out in my own childhood ('Bridge to Terabithia' and 'Where The Red Fern Grows') were decades before me.

watwut 3 days ago | parent | prev [-]

Yeah, we did not had any issue finding good book either. Good kids books exist and are easy to find. The kids not reading is not caused by books not existing.

Books are not culturally relevant anymore, not for adults and not for children.