>If a 14 year old watches porn and decides to copy what they see, that is a failure of sex education

Sex education is just another school class that in goes one ear, out goes another.

The kids will follow what they see (including in porn), what the culture has normalized, not what some teacher tells them in class...

So, "porn normalizes X, but it's the duty of sex-education to prevent kids copying it" is a lousy and losing approach.