Another thing that isn't fun is reading endless debates about what does and does not constitute rape. Some people legitimately believe that if a woman simply regrets having sex, the man is a rapist. Regardless of her behavior during the act, she could have been 100% into it, undress the guy, push him onto the bed and jump on top, but just because she changed her mind later he's now a disgusting rapist in some people's eyes.
And then there's a whole spectrum of other definitions all the way from there to the real definitions of rape. They're generally always in favor of women, for example if a man and a woman are drunk and they have sex, he is a rapist. If the woman didn't actually want to have sex but did it anyway without clearly expressing any kind of reluctance, guess what? Rapist. He should have read the signs, taken the hints, analyzed her body language etc.
Personally I think people are responsible for their own actions. If you get drunk and do something you regret, that's on you. If you don't like it, don't get drunk. If you go along with someone else's suggestion that's on you. It's your responsibility to stand up for yourself and say no if you don't want it. Men are people too, you can't just lock up some dude for years and completely destroy his life because some girl regrets having sex with him. What a lot of these people seem to be suggesting is that it should essentially be illegal for men to participate in sex, so that any woman he's had sex with can at any time completely destroy his life on a whim.
I get that there is nuance and grey areas, statutory rape is a thing and there are many examples of men abusing their power and status to get laid. That's a difficult topic but honestly if Harvey Weinstein tells some aspiring young actress that he'll cast her in a movie or whatever if she blows him then IMO it's still on her to stand up for herself. It's not pleasant, it's not okay, but it's also not rape. I do believe that kind of quid pro quo is illegal in some jurisdictions and by all means make it illegal if you can. It's basically prostitution, it just isn't rape.
On the other hand you have women actively using sex to manipulate men, it's not like these things only go one way. There are also lots of men who have had their lives ruined just from being accused of rape with no evidence.
A rule I've found to be generally quite reliable in life is that the extremists are always wrong. Any political group exists on a spectrum, and if they're too far to one side of that spectrum then they're probably crazy. That's my view of the extreme feminists and similar groups, they're too far out and their demands are unreasonable. They're not looking to make things equal, they're looking to give women power and advantages over men.
