> It seems like windows, ide and languages are all pretty nicely integrated together?

Not only, and not really. After all, for all its warts Visual Studio is still a decent debugger for C/C++. IntelliJ has pretty good debuggers across all of their IDEs for almost all languages (including things like automatically downloading and/or decompiling sources when you step into external libraries).

Even browsers ship with built-in debuggers (and Chrome's is really good). I still see a lot of people (including my colleagues) often spend inordinate amounts of time console.log'ing when just stepping though the program would suffice.

I think it's the question of culture: people are so used to using subpar tools, they can't even imagine what a good one may look like. And these tools constantly evolve. Here's RAD Debugger by Ryan Fleury: https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1920345634026238106.html