▲ | jjulius 5 days ago | |||||||||||||
>Reading was replaced by movies and shows on demand and wont come back no matter what educators or parents do. ... huh? I'm a parent and this just isn't true. My wife and I have phones, our young children do not. We do not own a tablet. Our children have never known what it's like to have the option of resorting to a screen to keep them busy when we're out of the house. TV time is limited on the weekends, extra limited on the weeknights. My oldest absolutely loves reading, and I watched her sit in the corner for 90 minutes on Sunday with a pile of books and a massive grin on her face the whole time. My youngest is still too young to read, but I'm hoping for results within the same realm. Your comment about there frequently not being much else to do? It's up to parents to, for lack of a better phrase, teach kids how to be bored. Edit: >It's cheaper, easily available and more fun. What's super fun, easily available and free for us is going to a park on the weekend to play and have lunch, and then driving around to a bunch of Little Free Libraries in the area. Drop off books we don't want, see if the kids or parents find anything that strikes our fancy. Our kiddos love it and so do we, it's great family time. | ||||||||||||||
▲ | TheOtherHobbes 5 days ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||||||||
I wish people would understand that their personal experience doesn't automatically generalise to collective trends. It's great that your kids are reading, but clearly a lot of kids, and even more adults, aren't. It's not just "up to parents" because the media, in all its forms, sets collective values. And the strategic problem in the US is that reading - and culture in general - is caught between a number of competing ideologies, most of which are destructive to what's usually understood as education both in and out of school. What individual parents do is downstream of all of those cultural influences. It's heavily dependent on socioeconomics, opportunity, and status, with error bars that depend on a random range of individual values. The US is a competing patchwork of wildly incompatible cultures and traditions, some of which are directly opposed to each other, and all of which - in practice - are suspicious of traditional educational goals. Put simply, no one is driving the bus. So it's stuck in a ditch, with its wheels spinning. And it's about to burst into flames. There's only so much individual parents can do to fix that. The problems are strategic and political, not individual, and they're much harder to fix than they seem. | ||||||||||||||
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▲ | watwut 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||
Your kids are small. They wont have other kids in school to talk about books with and to show them different books. The discovery of books and social aspect of it ends with you. It is completely different social environment compared to what I had. There used to be cheap junk book stories, journals about books, things like that. These do not really exist anymore, but similar structures exist for movies. Assuming they will social, they will have friends to talk with them about anime shows and they will go visit them to watch those shows in their house. The kids in school will talk about anime, about netflix shows, but not about books. > It's up to parents to, for lack of a better phrase, teach kids how to be bored. You have full control while they are small. That goes away quickly and obviously even should go away. But even more importantly, my parents and parents of my peers did not had to put that much work into us reading. They did not had to make the one big family project, they could have spend their weekends working in garden or going to play golf ... and generally speaking kids ended up reading a lot more anyway. They would read, because it was easily available and only fun thing to do. > What's super fun, easily available and free for us is going to a park on the weekend to play and have lunch, and then driving around to a bunch of Little Free Libraries in the area. It is not fun except for small kids. All these stats are about kids with agency which yours do not have yet. | ||||||||||||||
▲ | GeoAtreides 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||
>Fewer than 1 in 5 (18.7%) 8- to 18-year-olds told us that they read something daily in their free time in 2025, again, the lowest levels we've recorded, with daily reading levels decreasing by nearly 20 percentage points since 2005. [1] https://literacytrust.org.uk/research-services/research-repo... Seems like the kids just don't read anymore, yours being exception of course | ||||||||||||||
▲ | rixed 5 days ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||||||||
Alas, the evolution of societies is dictated by rules that no individual cases, however inspirational, can radically influence. You can teach your kids how to fly a plane, yet gravity is not up to parents. |