▲ | xp84 2 days ago | |||||||
I'm just gonna throw this out here: Well-off kids who barely know their workaholic parents have different but equally bad issues for society, than the poor kids do. Those poor kids have learning deficits. The "well-off" kids often have morality deficits. A mom or dad raising them properly might help them more than being Student #642 in a government childcare facility. This isn't an argument against childcare. My children attended preschool for 3 years before Kindergarten. But I'd rather that people got equal support to have a stay-at-home parent so that people can choose. | ||||||||
▲ | smeeth 2 days ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||
Do you have any evidence for that? From what I’ve seen, the research leans the other way. For example: Children from more advantaged families were actually more likely to view unfair distribution as unfair, while poorer children were more likely to accept it. [0] Mother’s work hours show no link to childhood behavioral problems, it’s schedule flexibility that matters. [1] For working-class families, more father work hours correlated with fewer behavioral problems.[2] The idea that “well-off kids” end up with morality deficits because their parents work a lot doesn’t seem to hold up. [0] https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/desc.13230 | ||||||||
▲ | nevir 2 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||
Like all things: the extremes are never good, and it's all about getting a healthy balance. - Kids need lots of time with their parents - Kids need lots of time around other kids You can do that by sending them to daycare, and ALSO spending lots of time with them when they're home. You can also do that by taking time off work, and then taking your kid(s) to places with other kids. Both work; and it depends on your context which works for you. | ||||||||
▲ | ujkhsjkdhf234 2 days ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||
You aren't wrong but calling it being "Student #642 in a government childcare facility" the wrong way of looking at it. Children grow up best when they are allowed to play with other children. Modern society robs kids of that and helicopter parents are bad for society. | ||||||||
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