> When someone says that they want to do something that not a lot of people want to do, I immediately wonder how they will use that against myself or someone else. Because that has happened multiple times to me.

I’m intrigued. Would you be comfortable sharing some of these real experiences here (with sensitive details fudged/removed)?

I'd rather not. They're very foggy memories now, and the ones that aren't are all attempted sexual abuse. Conmen are everywhere, and they will say things in the nicest most innocuous ways possible to sway you to do things for them. They'll do it over time, and they will very gradually ramp things up. "this is just a small change from that, what's the matter" ugh. people suck.