What kind of motherboard, CPU, cables, switches, and end devices would I need to buy to have a CXL network?

CXL uses the PCIe physical layer, so you just need to buy hardware that understands the protocol, namely the CPU and the expansion boards. AMD Genoa (e.g. EPYC 9004) supports CXL 1.1 as well as Intel Saphire Rapids and all subsequent models do. For CXL memory expansion boards, you can get from Samsung or Marvell. I got a 128 GB model from Samsung with 25 GB/s read throughput.

CXL networking is still in the R&D stage.