> I don't know about you, but I'd rather use a system that allows me to do what I want with my funds without anyone else controlling it.

How do we know that this unusual transaction is you doing what you want and not someone else controlling and defrauding you?

A small well-understood amount of friction that significantly reduces everyone's risk is not an attempt to control your funds.

Old systems with arbitrary delays based on twentieth century processes should be replaced, but not everything needs immediate infinite speed to be valuable.

> How do we know that this unusual transaction is you doing what you want and not someone else controlling and defrauding you?

That's what they'd like you to believe, but fact of the matter is that you're still not protected. For example, at my last company, the finance department was phished into changing a bank account number and transferred $50k to another account. Bank just shrugged.