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jnovek 5 days ago

Another thing to consider is that, once you are medicated, you have a whole new set of skills to develop.

I remember when I started taking ADHD meds and I was like “wow I can focus now” and proceeded to focus with all my might on the wrong thing.

sotix 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

That interesting. I can hyperfocus without medication just fine. It's the choosing what to focus on that I take medication to solve.

gtirloni 5 days ago | parent [-]

I think "just fine" would imply you can invoke hyperfocus whenever you want. In my experience, it happens with the most undesirable things at the most undesirable moments.

virtue3 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

But I know so much about randomly WW2 battle and military boats and airplanes that was critical to know at 3am when I had a full docket of stuff to do the next day...

sotix 4 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

That seems to contradict my third sentence. Hyperfocusing does not mean choosing what to focus on. My point was, ADHD to me is not an issue in focusing. It's an issue with choosing what to focus on.

gtirloni 4 days ago | parent [-]

Understood, thanks for clarifying. In my case, my hyperfocus sessions (sometimes on useful, sometimes on useless things) are in between absurd levels of distractions so I can't totally relate.

Aeolun 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think that’s true. If I want to focus on the thing that is my current obsession I can invoke that focus whenever I want. Never mind if I’m at work, in the shower, or at a birthday party. It’s just not very useful to achieve the goals you probably have at those places.

myth2018 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

I can relate. Also, sometimes I can even invoke it on things I want to. However, I just can't turn it off when needed.

directmusic 5 days ago | parent | prev | next [-]

My rule of thumb is: Whatever I am doing when the meds start working is what I'm going to be doing.

thewebguyd 5 days ago | parent [-]

Same. When I first started taking meds this was a hard lesson to learn. Yay I can actually focus on a task now. It just so happens that task needs to be whatever I'm doing when they start working.

gtirloni 5 days ago | parent | prev [-]

> Another thing to consider is that, once you are medicated, you have a whole new set of skills to develop.

Exactly. Once I got diagnosed, the doctor wanted to remove the SSRI's that had been treating the side effects and not the root cause... but that happened too quickly in my case. I had constant episodes.

After a few months, I had to go back to them while I was still learning about everything, how I had to change habits, what would work now, etc.