While very true, highly communal societies can be extremely toxic too.

Imagine not being able to get a job and having everyone actually gossiping about you. Pretty much middle school fears realized.

If the society was truly communal, then the people able to employ you should be the same ones gossiping. The question then becomes why they won't employ you. I do agree that living communally can be unpleasant if you're an independent thinker with views different from everyone else in a way no one can appreciate.

I don't have to imagine! I grew up in a village. On the whole, I think it's a plus, but you're right that this happens a lot.

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