I build neovim from source by myself, and maintain plugins as git submodules in pack/plugins/start (nvim automatically loads these at startup) and pack/plugins/opt (these are loaded manually) by myself. I have stuff like emmet, diffview.nvim, nvim-dap, etc loaded optionally when I want to use them. Status bar, LSP, Treesitter, and a few small tpope plugins are loaded on startup. I have a 500 line init.vim. I have a few local patches for some of the plugins.

This way, _nothing_ changes ever. That's how I want it.

I used to use astro.nvim (a few years back), then at one point I upgraded it and they had changed all the keybinds (even for basic shit like go to references IIRC), it was absolutely insane. I lost my shit and deleted the whole thing and moved to this setup. I will never use an nvim distro or update nvim plugins ever again. If I really want something I will git pull it myself (I'm looking out for nvim 12's ghost text feature for example). But in the general case, I'm done with any changes whatsoever. Not one byte.

I actually open-sourced my "approach" and documented it but I left it midway, if others are interested I might stop procrastinating and actually finish it.

I like the approach! I'd be interested in reading more. I might not fully adopt it but I m on a similar wavelength about stability. I don't want things to change unexpectedly, I just want my tools to just work consistently without surprises.