| ▲ | donatj a day ago |
| I had something of a semi-intentional palate reset in my early twenties. I had been a super picky eater basically my entire life, and getting me to try new foods was like pulling teeth. Then I spent a couple weeks traveling around Japan with some friends. I think it was in part genuinely wanting to immerse myself in the culture and in part not wanting to make myself appear fussy or annoying to a girl we were traveling with, but I forced myself to try things I would never have eaten state side. I found myself by the end of the trip actually pushing myself to try things... Even perhaps a little too far as the Takoyaki triggered my shellfish allergy. Nothing a bunch of Benadryl couldn't solve. I'd come to Japan a picky eater though and left an adventurous one. I will at least try just about anything once. This is something which twenty years later my parents still don't accept. "Oh, I thought you didn't eat salad" when I am halfway through my salad. Mind you there are still things I did not like before that I still do not like. Ketchup tops the list. |
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| ▲ | cardanome a day ago | parent | next [-] |
| I used to be very judgemental about picky eaters and felt they are all super spoiled people but it important to know that there are vastly different reasons for being one. Some neurodivergent people have genuine sensory issues that forces them to be selective about their food. They can't just get over it. Especially as exposure therapy does not work for them or at least not as well as for neurotypical people. So it is always good to remind oneself to be kind and not judge people harshly. You don't know what they are struggling with. That said, yeah most people absolutely profit from opening up their palate and trying new things. |
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| ▲ | lvturner 18 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | I've eaten all sorts of strange and exotic things... but most seafood, I simply... cannot. Most of it smells like it is rotting to me and the taste is overpowering[0]. Trust me, I've tried countless times. Something that my wife will insist has no or little seafood in will taste like I am eating the entire ocean. People would tell me "Oh you don't know what you are missing out on!" so I would try to get myself to eat it again. I've now learned that the only thing I am missing out on is suffering - I don't like seafood. I'm ok with this. [0]I have occassionally managed if it's exceptionally mild or watered down, but even then there is usually a sense that something taste a bit "odd" while not being wholly unpaletable. | | |
| ▲ | stavros 17 hours ago | parent [-] | | > Something that my wife will insist has no or little seafood in will taste like I am eating the entire ocean. I can relate, I'm the same with coffee and alcohol. Coffee just tastes like I'm eating/drinking charcoal, and alcohol tastes like bleach. People always go "oh but you can't taste the alcohol in this cocktail!". No, you can't taste the alcohol, it tastes like lemon-flavored bleach to me. | | |
| ▲ | sethammons 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | Wait - are there people who don't taste alcohol that way? I also taste charcoal for all coffee/espresso and people say the beans were burnt. Nope, my buddy ran a coffee shop and my kid is a coffee aficionado. All charcoal. But I just assumed everyone thought alcohol tasted like what I imagine bleach to give impressions of. | | |
| ▲ | lvturner 7 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | Interesting! I've never thought alcohol tastes like bleach, though in some I can now certainly get a taste of "ethanol", same with the charcoal coffee thing -- many flavours I've found in coffee, but never charcoal. I wouldn't be surprised if we all have some kind of genetic marker/mutation (I'm not a biologist, sorry!) that impacts the way we taste certain foods. | |
| ▲ | stavros 11 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | It very much seems that they do not. |
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| ▲ | o11c 14 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | Also, most people can't express "this food is triggering a minor allergy, enough to make me uncomfortable but not recognize it". | | |
| ▲ | Cthulhu_ 11 hours ago | parent [-] | | There was a post on Reddit (which came from Twitter or whatever) just now about someone who got itchy when eating plums; some food allergies are minor or just unconscious. Others take a while to trigger a response (bowel issues). But since spicy foods hurt and pineapple is tingly and that's normal, I suspect a lot of people with mild food allergies just... don't realise they have an allergy. | | |
| ▲ | Chris2048 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | tbh, it'd be great if there was just national (any country) testing for allergies. | | |
| ▲ | rypskar 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | It would be great if there was accurate tests for allergies. Blood tests shows what you absolute should stay away from, you maybe should be careful with, and what to do more testing with. Then there are different tests to learn more, but in the end they end of with learn to read your body's reaction and stay away from things you react badly to. And yes, this have made me a picky eater, not because I don't want to try new things but because the setting with trying new things is in most cases not the settings where you want to get the bad reactions | | |
| ▲ | Chris2048 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | AFAIK skin prick tests are the best for contact allergies, blood tests unlikely to find anything but severe allergies. and I'm not sure how to find mild food allergies directly, seems to be all food diaries and correlation which feels mostly useless.. There also seems to be a hair test that AFAI can tell is an outright scam. |
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| ▲ | brailsafe a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think this is in-part the beauty of a certain type of travel in general, which if you do it before you form too many rigid biases, eventually sets a person apart from their grade school peers who just went full-send on their hometown or whatever. It's totally cliche, but if you just set yourself up to be forced to try and explore and enjoy different geographies, cities, food, or meet types of people you'd otherwise have avoided, then your default perspective is forever unlimited by the invisible ceiling or floor that you had before. For me, it didn't even occur to me that it was normal to have trains/trams inside your city until I was in my twenties, and you don't even need to be NYC! Once I learned about it, my hometown pretty much lost whatever argument they might have had to get me to stay, and as soon as the option presented itself, I was out. |
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| ▲ | jajko 10 hours ago | parent [-] | | Travel far and outside of comfort zone changes person, any person, for good. Prophet Mohammed is quoted roughly saying: "Don't tell me how educated you are, tell me how much you have travelled". There are non-trivial amount of people who discovered this on their own, got properly addicted and basically live in their western jobs to be able to afford as much travel ie in remote parts of south east Asia as possible. Some skipped that western job part altogether. I recently spent few weeks in remote parts of northern Sulawesi and the only westerners I kept meeting were of this bunch, with exactly same travel bug. The problem is as you describe - you can't explain all this and much more to folks who stayed home or some variant of that. You can show photos and videos, tell stories but what that experience changed within you, thats your journey only. Personally, this is by far the best way to spend money (plus gym membership). |
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| ▲ | colechristensen a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| There are a lot of negatives attributes to people that they think are fundamental to themselves that folks identify with which turn out to be... well... bad habits and bad attitudes. |
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| ▲ | donatj a day ago | parent [-] | | I agree completely. Understanding the level of control you really have over yourself is key to unlock so many good things. |
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| ▲ | astura a day ago | parent | prev [-] |
| I had a very intentional palate reset in my late teens going into my early 20s. I wasn't exposed to any variety of food growing up and I stopped eating meat at a very young age (In my 40s now, still don't eat meat). So before adulthood all I ever ate was pasta, and almost always boxed pasta at that. I also had issues with some texture and flavors being extremely off-putting and making me wanna gag. I knew I wasn't going to be able to eat that way forever, for a number of reasons (health being a big one) so I forced myself to try new foods, gradually. I fucking hated it, but I kept at it. I now like most non-meat foods, even enjoy mushrooms which have previously made me vomit. The first time I had avocado it was the nastiest thing I ever tasted but I eat (and like) avocado most days now. |
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| ▲ | colechristensen a day ago | parent [-] | | One thing that people don't know very well is that kids' taste experience is different and for some this is stronger than others. The actual flavor sense is different or much more intense and this dulls with age. I still can't eat fresh tomato and it isn't a matter of being picky or having preferences, it is very obvious that I can taste something in tomatoes that other people just can't and to me that taste is "poison". |
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