> Simply that he can use these to try to understand the unfairness he feels.

You're suggesting he deal with unfairness by internalizing it as virtue? That's how to make people who cheer at other people's failures.

> Your anarcho-individualistic development ideas sound good in theory

Thanks for illustrating my point. No project, >3 or <= 3, has ever made any new technology by adopting as a tenet that social agreement inside the project is more important than correctly modeling the world outside it, and you're suggesting I'm using inefficiently agreeable-sounding words to express it.