> Of course, only the beeping Internet Archive totally ignored it and scraped my site. And now, despite me trying many times, they won't remove it.

In all honestly, if you're hosting it on the internet, why is this a problem? If you didn't want it to backed up, why is it publicly accessible at all? I'm glad the internet archive will keep hosting this content even when the original is long gone.

Let's say I'd read your website and wanted to look it up one day in the far future, only to find many years later the domain had expired, I'd be damn glad at least one organization had kept it readable.

A totally fair question. I want to be in control of my content is the simple answer. Yes, I know it being public means I've already "lost control" in that you can scrap my website and that's that. But you scraping my website vs a anyone-can-search it website like IA are two different things. IA claim they will honour removal requests, but then roundly fail to do so. And then have the gal to email me and ask me to donate.

Additionally, when I die, I want my website to go dark and that's that. It's a diary, it's very very mundane. My tech blog I post to, sure, I'm 200% happy to have that scraped/archived. My diary I keep very up-to-date offline copies of that my family have access to, should I tip over tomorrow.

I realise this goes against the usual Internet wisdom, and I'm sure there's more than one Chinese AI/bot out there that's scraped it and I have zero control over. But where I allegedly do have control, I'd like to exercise it. I don't think that's an unfair/ridiculous request.