> My fuzzy point is not fuzzy at all: don't tell people how to kill themselves, don't say "I can't help you with that but I could roleplay with you instead". Anything less than that is a moral failure on Sam Altman and OpenAI's part, regardless of how black the box is for their engineers.

This is the same argument that politicians use when proposing encryption backdoors for law enforcement. Just because you wish something were possible doesn't mean it is, and in practice it matters how black the box is. You can make these things less likely, but it isn't possible to completely eliminate them, especially when you have millions of users and a very long tail.

I fundamentally disagree with the position that anything less that (practically impossible) perfection is a moral failure, and that making available a model that can roleplay around themes like suicide, violence, death, sex, and so on is immoral. Plenty of books do that too; perhaps we should make them illegal or burn them too? Although you could convince me that children shouldn't have unsupervised access to such things and perhaps requiring some privacy-preserving form of verification to access is a good idea.