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giraffe_lady 18 hours ago

Well see I've been part of this conversation longer than maid has been a thing. And it used to be "oh that won't happen, it'll only be for terminally ill people and with a high level of medical and psychological oversight." And so my position was that maid shouldn't become a thing until eg "providing wheelchairs" is fully accomplished.

And now here we are. Maid is a thing, and people are being encouraged to do it while not being provided the alternatives they are asking for. And the numbers for how many are totally illegible but also somehow too low for you to be concerned with.

My activism has long been more focused on getting people the care they need than opposing maid. But regardless people still don't always get the care they need and we have maid for them instead. We said it would be like this and it is like this.

clipsy 18 hours ago | parent [-]

> And so my position was that maid shouldn't become a thing until eg "providing wheelchairs" is fully accomplished.

Without having actual data, this is nothing more than an excuse to eliminate MAID indefinitely pending an imaginary system in which no one slips through the cracks; in the meantime, you will force countless more to suffer months or years of needless agony on the off chance that one of them might be one of your anecdotes.

> And now here we are. Maid is a thing, and people are being encouraged to do it while not being provided the alternatives they are asking for. And the numbers for how many are totally illegible but also somehow too low for you to be concerned with.

The only "numbers" I get from anyone like you are a handful of anecdotes that add up to a tiny fraction of a percent of people who elect MAID, and a vanishingly small percent of people eligible for MAID. If you genuinely mean well, I want you to understand: you are being manipulated by people who will do nothing to help those in need, and on their behalf you are campaigning to immiserate thousands upon thousands every single year.

arduanika 17 hours ago | parent [-]

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clipsy 17 hours ago | parent [-]

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dang 17 hours ago | parent [-]

Please respect the site guidelines when commenting here and don't cross into personal attack, no matter how wrong someone else is or you feel they are.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

clipsy 17 hours ago | parent [-]

I genuinely am not clear on how that crosses over to a personal attack? I'm factually describing the outcome of eliminating MAID, nothing more.

Edit: By the way, great job singling my post out for speaking factually about the consequences of someone's beliefs while ignoring a post[0] that explicitly calls MAID eugenics. I wonder: if I'd spoken in abstract terms rather than referencing @giraffe_lady specifically would I be in the clear? What a wonderful policy you have, dang.

[0]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45021189

dang 15 hours ago | parent [-]

"one who wishes months or years of suffering and misery on the terminally ill solely to assuage her own conscience" was a reference to the person you were arguing with and an attack, hence a personal attack.

I didn't see that other comment. If you see a post that ought to have been moderated but hasn't been, the likeliest explanation is that we didn't see it. You can help by flagging it or emailing us at hn@ycombinator.com. (https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&qu...)