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HardCodedBias 19 hours ago

About 18 months ago in Quebec, my aunt, who was terminally ill with cancer, had to go to the hospital for severe pain. I had a phone call with her just before she went in, and while the idea of suicide had come up occasionally, usually during bouts of sundowning, it wasn't her focus at that moment. Once she was in the hospital's care, she was offered a permanent solution to her suffering. After a seemingly normal visit with her sisters that night, she died by assisted suicide the next morning. Her sisters were shocked and devastated.

While I think people should be free to choose, I don't know how much information hospital staff should be able to give.

Difficult.

Edit: I'm not 100% certain as to the timeline. She may have been in the hospital for 2 days.

aceofspades19 19 hours ago | parent [-]

Here is the procedure for MAID: https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/health-servi...

You have to have 2 independent medical assessments at a minimum as well as written consent that is witnessed. So its not like you can just say you want to do it and then they just off you right there. She could have had all sorts of reasons for not telling anyone including her sisters. There's nothing in your anecdote that disputes she could have planned it long in advance and just not told anyone.

HardCodedBias 18 hours ago | parent [-]

"There's nothing in your anecdote that disputes she could have planned it long in advance"

It seems implausible.

She lived with her sisters and while she was quite capable of many tasks, I think that long term subterfuge was beyond her. She was well into mental decline.

"You have to have 2 independent medical assessments at a minimum as well as written consent that is witnessed"

Could this not have happened at the hospital?

aceofspades19 17 hours ago | parent [-]

Well its impossible for us to know her state of mind, anything would be speculation.

Yes, it could have happened at the hospital but do you think they have people sitting around waiting to do medical assessments and be witnesses just so they can push MAID onto people? At most hospitals the doctors and medical staff are extremely busy.