Im confused as to how this looks in practice. Are you saying you embody making the right choices in a relationship as setting an example? or convincing others that this is a good want to go? How do we stop the exploitation of each other in relationships? It seems like its burned into our genetic make up that started a long time ago. We sort of use each other to get what we want. I know there is a higher path, but as you said I don't see how thats possible in commerce as it appears like its exploitable by nature.

I was answering OPs comment, so in practice I’m saying I don’t use these pandering perspectives that provide convenient faceless enemies, and where I’m the good guy. Better to try to improve one relationship at a time, and re-examine ourselves for blame. And that probably we get most leverage out of improving the relationship with our own self first - it has knock on effects to all the others.