I'm going to say, "wow, that's fucked up. Maybe there's something deeply wrong with Tesla autopilot."

Sure, and that's very different from "the idea of self-driving cars is a giant scam that will never work".

If, four years on, the primary thing a tool has done for me is waste my time, I think it's time to start looking at it through the lens of a scam. Even if it does have good use cases, that is not the main thing it does, at least not in the current market.