They will grow.

At one point in my life I was very busy with uni and full-time job. I listened to audiobooks, lessons, or just read my notes during commutes. And I was lucky to be allowed to study in my work breaks (away from the "watercooler gang"). I made time. I was very picky with who I spent time with and made sure the human interaction was high quality. Those were some of my most productive years for my side/fun projects. And I was never bored.

Life is not short. We waste most of it in meaningless time sinks. (BTW, thank you for making me remember this)

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jhanschoo 4 days ago | parent | next [-]

> Life is not short. We waste most of it in meaningless time sinks. (BTW, thank you for making me remember this)

By any chance have you read https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/De_Brevitate_Vitae_(Seneca) ? The sentiment expressed here is almost exactly what is expressed here.

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wat10000 4 days ago | parent | prev [-]

This seems directly opposed to the statement that “All this middle age crisis stems from having fewer children and even fewer grandchildren.”

	▲	alecco 4 days ago \| parent [-]
		Being busy acts like a pacemaker. All people I know with big families don't have mid-life crisis. They do get overwhelmed at times. But most have some hobby or passion. Sports, cars, wood-making, or side projects. Kids make you realize time goes by. It's harder to accept life moving on if you are alone. And you are more likely to fall for negative habits. In general, of course there are outliers at both ends of the curve. In old-style charities people with families are a majority. But the fashionable new and ephemeral NGOs are usually full of singles (mostly posing). Again, in general. And I should listen to my own advise. You are right. I am just another guy and shouldn't give advice on life to complete strangers, on the internet. Good night.