> That's like saying if/when an AV runs over a bunch of people that its not like they're the only ones running over people human drivers do it too!

I mean, that's literally what happened? Computer controlled cars were developed, killed some people, and everyone collectively shrugged and went on with their lives. A large part of that reaction was probably because we're all immersed in a culture that just expects some number of people to die because of cars every year.