Agreed.

Being a mere user of web or other apps developed using so clever and felxible and powerful services like this accidentally (due to sheer complexity) exposing all and everything I might consider dear makes me reconsider if I want to use any. When I am granted a real choice. Not so much as time progresses, not so much. Apps are there everywhere using other apps, mandated by organizations carrying out services outsourced by banks, governemnts, etc., granted third parties' access by me accepting T&C, probably catching trouble in the details, or probably not, cannot be sure.

A reassuring line like this >>This is not meant to shame any particular vendor; it happens to everyone<< may calm providers but scare the shit out of me as a user providing my sensitive data in exchange for something I need, or worst, must do.