▲ | raincole 3 days ago | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
> I, as a human, rarely have questions to ask This is an eye-opening sentence. It's quite hard to imagine how to live one's daily life with "few questions to ask." Perhaps this is a neurodivergent thing? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | agloe_dreams 3 days ago | parent | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I meant mostly in the context of daily life tasks as a person with ADHD - so maybe a hair neurodivergent. My issue isn't that I don't wonder things, it is that indulging the wonder would interrupt me from accomplishing almost anything. I would not very highly functioning if I allowed for non-critical thoughts to interrupt the flow. When outside of trying to do specific things and in less focus-dependent tasks, I absolutely wonder and google and get lost on weird random topics. I think I probably could have worded it more as "I rarely have questions worth knowing the answer to", where the cost of knowing answers is tied to the following rabbit holes and delays/forgotten tasks. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | throwawaylaptop 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I always ponder how many people have a refrigerator in their home their entire life, and what percentage of them don't know how it works. I've asked several gfs, and they don't have even a hint of how it works. Guy friends do a bit better but not as well as you'd think. So yes, people live their entire lives not asking obvious questions. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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▲ | zoeysmithe 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I'm autistic and I probably ask many more questions than most people. I would also argue that ND people seem to be the heavier AI users, at least in my experience. Its a bit like the stereotypical 'wikipedia deep dive' but 10x. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | dwb 3 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Don’t try and diagnose people like this please. Even if you’re qualified, and I doubt you are, it’s very insensitive. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | R_D_Olivaw 3 days ago | parent | prev [-] | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Oh what a blissful environment the mind that is not full of constant questions begging to be answered and explored must be. I'll just be over here, floating (often treading water) in a raging river of "what ifs ...", "I wonder ifs..." And, "Hmmms?" |