It sucks when your communication preferences are overridden! To be fair though, many valid reasons to prefer a quick call over a message (a potentially infinite sequence of messages, really). Even on the receiving end of a request: perhaps I want to poke around the context behind their non-urgent ask, like what they are _actually_ trying to achieve, why not do X instead etc. -- often easier to call and solve all the follow-up questions interactively on the spot.

I understand that async communications has some benefits, but I am continually flabbergasted that instead of weighing async & sync comms suitability for different situations, we've landed in a place where everyone is terrified to make or receive a phone call.