The articles describe how the problem is inherent in the language.

If we exclude AAA games, probably the vast majority of the games nowadays don't need manual memory management for the game core (C# was a popular choice, it seems). I guess that if one really needs manual memory management, languages with moderate memory safety would be a more appropriate choice (support libraries/frameworks being equal, which certainly aren't).

I've used Bevy, and ECS is not an appopriate choice for every game (I wouldn't actually advise it unless there is a specific need). It requires very careful design over the whole lifecycle (ECS-based games very easily tend to get a mess), which is exactly the opposite of one wants for rapid prototyping.