DarkLang which was initially written in OCaml eventually switched to F#. From what I remember the main reasons were the library ecosystem and concurrency.

I'm know .NET in and out, so I might be biased. Most of the boring parts have multiple good solutions that I can pick from. I don't have to spend time on things that are not essential to the problem I actually want to solve.

I've used F# professionally for multiple years and maintain a quite popular UI library written in it. But even with .NET there still are gaps because of the smaller F# language ecosystem. Not everything "just works" between CLR languages - sometimes it's a bit more complicated.

The main point I'm trying to make is that going off the beaten path (C#) for example also comes with a cost. That cost might or might not be offset by the more expressive language. It's important to know this so you are not surprised by it.

With OCaml it's similar I'd say. You get a really powerful language, but you're off the beaten path. Sure, there are a few companies using it in production - but their use case might be different than yours. On Jane Streets Threads and Signals podcast they often talk about their really specific use cases.

1: https://blog.darklang.com/new-backend-fsharp/