The computer is not empathetic. Empathy is tied to a conscious. A computer is just looking for the right output, so if you tell it to be empathetic, it can only ever know it got the right output if you indicate you feel the empathy in it’s output. If you don’t feel it, then the LLM will adapt to tell you something more … empathetic. Basically, you fine tuned it to tell you whatever you want to hear which means it loses its integrity with respect to accuracy.