| ▲ | blackqueeriroh 5 days ago |
| You seem to fail to understand what empathy is. Empathy is not understanding another person’s point of view, but instead being able to analogize their experience into something you can understand, and therefore have more context for what they might be experiencing. If you can’t do that, it’s less about you being rational and far more about you having a malformed imagination, which might just be you being autistic. — signed, an autistic |
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| ▲ | mnsc 5 days ago | parent [-] |
| You are right, and another angle is that empathy with a homeless drug addict is less about needing to understand/analogize why the person is a drug addict, which is hard if you only do soft socially acceptable drugs, but rather to remember that the homeless drug addict is not completely defined by that simple definition. That the person in front of you is a complete human that shares a lot of feelings and experiences with you. When you think about that and use those feelings to connect with that human it lets you be kinder towards him/her. |
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| ▲ | mnsc 5 days ago | parent | next [-] | | For example, the homeless drug addict might have a dog that he/she loves deeply, maybe oceanplexian have a dog that they love deeply. Suddenly oceanplexian can empathize with the homeless drug addict. Even though they still can't understand why on earth the drug addict doesn't quit drugs to make the dog's life better. (Spoiler alert drugs override rational behaviour, now oceanplexian also understand the homeless drug addict) | |
| ▲ | frumplestlatz 5 days ago | parent | prev [-] | | Does “connecting with that human” to be “kinder towards him/her”, in the way that you describe, actually improve outcomes? The weight of evidence over the past 25 years would suggest absolutely not. | | |
| ▲ | mnsc 5 days ago | parent [-] | | Improve outcomes? Like make the drug addict stop being a drug addict? If so, you misunderstand the point of being kind. If you want to maximize outcomes I have a solution that guarantees 100% that the person stops being a drug addict. The u.s. are currently on their way there and there's absolutely no empathy involved. | | |
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