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trod1234 a day ago

> but it needs an edit pass - for politeness/assumption of positive regard.

We will have to disagree.

I have appreciated that, though the post isn't repetitive, each point has a fine and different nuance its meant to convey, and a single tie-in back to the overarching point/theme at the end signaling the completion of the idea; this is a very common writing style/structure when conveying information.

The problem with doing as you mention is that any further reduction would introduce ambiguity, and fragmentary thought, through improper generalization/isolation. These would then be latched upon towards subtle harassment attacks, like nullification, which have become all too popular on all platforms today.

You'll notice the people I responded to don't provide reflected appraisal, as someone earnest would, and that is needed to write or tailor responses towards a common audience level, or bridge the comprehensive gap. This is a failing on their part, not mine.

They are in all likelihood either bots seeking to remove useful information, or are doing so purposefully following a critical theory mindset which are a particularly destructive engrammed set of trauma loops, though a rare few manage to crawl and pull themselves out of it towards actual reasoning when the mistakes in reasoning are brought to light.

Politeness and positive regard aren't what you seem to think. Washington wrote about politeness, and aside from the dated material, it still holds up today.

You will find much in his 110 Rules of Civility which constitute politeness which are present in my writings.

The 'disarmed politeness' you seem to want is based in an impossibility when you strip all the indirection and contradiction away. The brevity you seem to want ignores the fine nuance/comprehensiveness needed to be polite, and the resulting outcome of doing either naturally leads to "lies to children", and the imposition of harassment for volunteering useful information, something I won't do disarmed. An impasse.

Charity is provided and given solely on the terms of the giver, and not at the barrel of a gun, blackmail, or inherent threat thereof and volunteers stop giving when it costs them more than they were willing to give, and its an individual decision.

I'll have to remember Mathew 7:6 when next I consider providing such charity, though I'm glad and appreciate you letting me know you found the substance useful. So few people do this and it is appreciated.