▲ | light_hue_1 6 days ago | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Let me refute that defense. I went to the kinds of schools we're talking about and I had a lab at them for over a decade. If you went to an elite school and your kid can't get in by competing fairly with other kids, they're subpar and shouldn't get in. Kids of legacies have a massive advantage even if their legacy status is totally ignored. For example, I'm certain that I can get my kids into MIT (they're a bit young right now). I know exactly what they need to do, how they need to present themselves, what classes to take, courses, extracurriculars, how to stand out, who to ask for letters, who to ask for opportunities like time in a research lab, etc. I've even helped other kids make plans and then get in. Same for my wife for the Ivy League school she attended. Those connections, peers, knowledge, resources, etc. are hard to match. If the kids decide they want to do that. There's no reason to give these kids (my own included!) any other advantage. They're born with such a massive head start that it's hard to lose, if they put in the work. If they don't, then they shouldn't go to these places. The only thing legacy admissions do is take away opportunities from students that deserve to be there. Stanford/Harvard/etc. shouldn't get a dime of state or federal funding as long as they continue to do this. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
▲ | jjmarr 6 days ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I'm certain by the time your kids are applying for MIT the standards will be much higher and your advice will be less relevant. I know a professor charging high schoolers to be his research assistant, because there's too many people asking for research labs roles. I know people that got into top business schools because they already had thousands in MRR in high school. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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▲ | JumpCrisscross 6 days ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
> If you went to an elite school and your kid can't get in by competing fairly with other kids, they're subpar and shouldn't get in OP's point is those kids will still probably wield exceptional wealth and power. Wherever they congregate will thus become the de facto centre of the elites. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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▲ | areoform 6 days ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
I am curious to learn more about your perspective! Would it be possible to contact you somehow? (your profile doesn't have an email!) |