People like the ones you're replying to like to make excuses for their lack of agency.

"I can't work out, I can't afford a gym! No, I'm not going to run around the park or join the YMCA!"

"I can't eat healthy, I can't afford it! No, I'm not going to buy a big bag of rice and black beans."

Before anyone comes at me: there are poor people and their struggles are real. I am 100% opposed to things like removing soda from food stamps.

It's still victim blaming.