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jahewson 5 days ago

Let’s not kid ourselves, the goal is to shame men in an attempt to control them.

archagon 5 days ago | parent [-]

Maybe if all these creepy men just dated each other and left women alone, the problem would solve itself.

lupusreal 5 days ago | parent | next [-]

Great suggestion, very practical and well intentioned. On that note, I had another idea; toxic women should stop associating with men. They should take themselves off the dating apps and stop ruining the lives of any men that might be unfortunate enough to pair up with them. My suggestion is just as practical as your suggestion I think. The toxic women can self-identify and voluntarily exclude themselves just as well as the creepy men.

chneu 5 days ago | parent [-]

>They should take themselves off the dating apps

Then they can't complain about how horrible people are. Unfortunately, being a victim is a large part of many people's personalities. This is especially true for the "chronically single" people on dating apps. It's never their fault people don't want to date them! It's everyone else who is horrible.

Years ago when I was on the apps and went on dates it was obvious who these people were. They rarely actually go on dates because every person they match with is a predator to them. Then, if an actual date happened, it would quickly go nowhere because they're treating you as if you're a predator. The whole vibe with these people is awkward and judgmental. Then folks wonder why their dating app experience is bad.

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