In a better-constructed society, that child isn't dependent upon them alone their entire lives. "It takes a village" isn't just about things like education.

(I observe people struggling to care for elderly parents while also trying to be highly-successful rugged individuals and I'm struck by hoe, for want of a better phrase, anti-human that self-made goal is. Real people need help. In all stages of their lives. We have convinced ourselves that need is weakness).