▲ | andsoitis 17 hours ago | ||||||||||||||||
> I want to walk up to a person and they don't know. That’s usually not cool. | |||||||||||||||||
▲ | nancyminusone 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
I never do this on purpose but it happens. People are usually baffled at how a 6'4 person can "appear" out of nowhere, and I'm always wondering how I could have possibly be hidden. | |||||||||||||||||
▲ | cainxinth 9 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
I had an old bike that was fairly noisy. I got a new bike that is remarkably silent. I try to use my bell or my voice but I still end up sneaking up on people all the time and, as you said, they don’t enjoy it. | |||||||||||||||||
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▲ | wccrawford 13 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | ||||||||||||||||
As someone who constantly does this to people, I can confirm that it is both amusing and, as you say, "not cool". To that point, I used to wear my keys on a chain, and let the chain dangle to make noise as I walked. It still didn't work very well, though, so I eventually gave up on that. Now I have no solution for it except that I'm more careful to try to approach people from the side or scuff my feet or something as I approach. Also... I was recently diagnosed as having Autism, and I distinctly remember just after high school someone approaching me and tell me that I still "walk funny". They didn't mean anything cruel by it, it was just a fact. And I realized that I do walk funny, and I can even correct at least some of it if I think about it, but generally, I like how I walk for the advantages it brings, like balance and agility. Which is probably why I taught my self to walk like that in the first place. |