I’m one of those ADHD spouses and I WISH I got a consistent answer from my brain when I ask “where would I have put it”. Sometimes it’s because I temporarily put it down and then forgot it existed, but the rest of the time my brain is on a choose-your-own-adventure for organizational questions. At least, deep down, it annoys me just as much as my wife.

Most people would likely curl into a ball and cry if they had to interact with my computer desktop or file system organization, try as I might…