And, importantly, the USA spying can actually have an impact on your life in a way that the Chinese spying can't.

Suppose you live in the USA and the USA is spying on you. Whatever information they collect goes into a machine learning system and it flags you for disappearal. You get disappeared.

Suppose you live in the USA and China is spying on you. Whatever information they collect goes into a machine learning system and it flags you for disappearal. But you're not in China and have no ties to China so nothing happens to you. This is a strictly better scenario than the first one.

If you're living in China with a Chinese family, of course, the scenarios are reversed.