The problem isn't really the ratio, but the use in arbitrary contexts that require a lot of pre-existing knowledge. The reference value is sometimes a rather arbitrary value in an arbitrary unit, neither of which is communicated by the "dB" unit suffix.

The SI way to write `10 dBm` is to write `10 dB (1mW)`, clearly communicating both the power level and the reference point and unit. This ensures that you do not have to just memorize a bunch of decibell suffixes and their magical reference values.