> As an example, it makes no sense to me that eg in audio software, volume sliders start at 0 dB and then go down to negative $MUCHO, until complete silence at -Infinity.

This one doesn’t bother me. Those sliders, and especially the real analog sliders they’re modeled after, don’t have an absolute scale — they are attenuators that reduce voltage. So 0dB is the same as no slider at all, -20dB reduces voltage by a factor of 10, etc.