I'm in the same boat exactly, I build things for myself and then hope other people will use them. I struggle to market things, it seems like so much legwork and I've too many irons in the fire. I almost wish I could just hire a marketer who would take a 50% cut.

> If I did agile poker and code commenting and stuff it would take all the fun (momentum) out of sitting down at my home desk after hours at my work desk.

I hope you're not sitting for hours at work and then continuing to sit for hours in the evening. That's not healthy. It might just be a figure of speech but if not, I'd recommend a standing desk either at work or at home.

I know someone will probably argue with me about standing desks because internet people love arguing, but there's ample evidence that sitting all day is bad for us

Haha well rest assured I was being hyperbolic. The desk job requires a decent amount of walking around and other after hours obligations mean I only have limited personal dev time.

> a marketer

Maybe get chummy with a product manager who likes it enough to do it after hours?