>rent is very likely to be correlated with food costs - so, if rent is high, food costs are also likely to be high

Not sure I agree with this. It's reasonable to have a model where the mean rent may be correlated with the mean food cost, but given those two parameters we can model the fluctuations about the mean as uncorrelated. In any case at the point when you want to consider something like this you need to do proper Bayesian statistics anyways.

>In general normal distributions are rarer than people think - they tend to require some kind of constraining factor on the values to enforce.

I don't know where you're getting this from. One needs uncorrelated errors, but this isn't a "constraint" or "negative feedback".

The family example is a pat example, but take something like project planning - two tasks, each one takes between 2 and 4 weeks - except that they’re both reliant on Jim, and if Jim takes the “over” on task 1, what’s the odds he takes the “under” on task 2?

This is why I joked about it as the mortgage derivatives maxim - what happened in 2008 (mathematically, at least - the parts of the crisis that aren’t covered by the famous Upton Sinclair quote) was that the mortgage backed derivatives were modeled as an aggregate of a thousand uncorrelated outcomes (a mortgage going bust), without taking into account that at least a subset of the conditions leading to one mortgage going bust would also lead to a separate unrelated mortgage going bust - the results were not uncorrelated, and treating them as such meant the “1 in a million” outcome was substantially more likely in reality than the model allowed.

Re: negative feedback - that’s a separate point from the uncorrelated errors problem above, and a critique of using the normal distribution at all for modeling many different scenarios. Normal distributions rely on some kind of, well, normal scattering of the outcomes, which means there’s some reason why they’d tend to clump around a central value. We see it in natural systems because there’s some constraints on things like height and weight of an organism, etc, but without some form of constraint, you can’t rely on a normal distribution - the classic examples being wealth, income, sales, etc, where the outliers tend to be so much larger than average that they’re effectively precluded by a normal distribution, and yet there they are.

To be clear, I’m not saying there are not statistical methods for handling all of the above, I’m noting that the naive approach of modeling several different uncorrelated normally distributed outcomes, which is what the posted tool is doing, has severe flaws which are likely to lead to it underestimating the probability of outlier outcomes.